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Plan days out with your lo. When my daughter was little, we spent hours at the park at a time. Sometimes I'd come back, just long enough to swap out our snacks and milk. She ate purees on a blanket at the park and wandered around grassy fields and baseball diamonds as soon as she was old enough to walk. If you have a car that opens up even more options. Have a circuit for stroller walks around your neighborhood, and occasionally invite your mom. Getting her out of the house, walking, and talking would do her a lot of good, too. 😉
No we are not messy. We all pull our own weight. We clean up after ourselves, pay half the bills, buy the groceries, we do everything as if it was our very own home. I wish it was just as easy as "getting over it" but it's not. She's the first baby I've had that I didn't have to go back to work a week after having so I'm trying everything to soak it in and enjoy what I can that I missed out with my older two.
That sounds like an awful environment to be in if I were you I’d do anything I could to get out. I work as a preschool teacher and I also work within the daycare setting so we serve infants as well and let me tell you there’s nothing wrong with a child being in daycare or preschool.It does not mean your child will not turn out well rounded. In fact, I find that kids who engage in preschool have much better social skills than those that don’t. Not all day cares and preschoolers are created equal though so that’s something to be aware of. But you and your children and your fiancé don’t deserve to be around someone who takes their anger out in the surrounding area. Don’t live that life you don’t have to.
Can you not afford to rent on your husband’s salary? It’s really just asking yourself what’s more important to you: waiting god knows how long till you can buy land/build a house or have a healthy home?
Do you help around the house? Or is she cleaning up behind you and your fiance and baby/kids? That would put me in a bad mood as well. If you're living with someone you really should be making it like you're not there and there should be nothing extra they have to do because you're there. If that's not the case and you DO leave the house spotless without being asked, then I would say you really do have to get over leaving baby with a babysitter and get to work so you can leave ASAP. Or work opposite shifts with your fiance so you don't need to pay childcare.