Losing my mad

I’m about to get married. I was supposed to have six bridesmaids, now I’m down to two. Every week someone else drops out. I swear, I’m losing my mind!😞😞😞
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When is your wedding?

May ,9 in three weeks

Why are they dropping out

Oh I’m so sorry 😞 we got married during a covid spike back in 2022, and about 50 guests dropped out in the week leading up to the wedding. I was a wreck. But ultimately the people we really wanted to be there showed up for us, and we had a great time. I hope everything works out! 🫶🏼

I am so sorry ! However take it as it is , if they keep dropping out. Let them , my bridesmaids are my younger brother and sister because I know they care deeply about me and vice versa, you my love , should surround yourself with those who truly, truly, adore you. Though it hurts , it'll all work out

Fuck em! The people that want to show up for you on your big day will find a way to be there. And those that don't? Their loss. The day is about you and your spouse. The rest doesn't matter.

I know there's the whole point of emotional support and having your loved ones support you. But if you are more asking about the logistics of the wedding like the ceremony or all the trypical wedding party stuff, just have no wedding party at all. No bridesmaids and no groomsmen. One of the best decisions we made was to not have a wedding party at all. Both my parents just walked me down the aisle, and that was it. I would have even preferred just walking down the aisle entirely by myself, but my parents would have been sad about that. Its all really more about you and your new husband anyways. If money was spent to have bridesmaids and groomsmen then yeah that sucks, but maybe try to get what money you can back. 🤷‍♀️

Thank you everyone, but money was already spend and everything All planned Venue, bridesmaids stuff ect But I just realized it’s all good

I'm so sorry that happened! This is why my fiancé & I decided to just have my maid of honor and his best man. I don't have many friends to start with and I am completely okay with that. My maid of honor has been my day 1 since 2015 and she's the bestest friend I could ever ask for. The day is about you and your soon to be forever partner. That's all that matters! Just imagine it's just you 2🩷

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