Divorce

My husband told me last Monday that he wants a divorce because he can’t be who I want him to be because that not who he is and he can’t be with someone that is constantly trying to change him to who I want him to be. All I have ever asked of him was that he be able to provide for the family with stable income, help take care of the family and be faithful. He couldn’t do that we have a 6 month old son that he has not seen in 2 weeks. He has not helped me get anything for our son or anything in general. I am at a loss all I ever wanted was to have a happy marriage and family. Is it wrong to feel like I’m world is falling apart.

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I’m so sorry. But yes, it does sound like he can’t be what you need and you’re better off without him if he can’t offer those basic things. You’re going to be ok.

@Grayson what is worse is that his parents are letting him do this they are letting him go without seeing or talking to his kid. His mom told me that I need to change and be the more responsible and understanding adult and didn’t say anything about her son doing better

So sorry you are going through this. As parents they will always support their son/daughter no matter how shitty they are or even if they literally do nothing with their life. You can’t control what he chooses to do or not do but you can choose to live happier for yourself and your baby even without him. If anything, you are going to be much better without him and it’ll open up possibilities when you are ready to meet someone that will be able to provide everything you want and need and much more! You’ll be okay 🩷

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