Resentment towards husband

Did anyone else feel any resentment towards their husband after having a baby? My little girl is currently 6 days old and my husband thought it was acceptable to go to the pub with his friend for a couple of hours. I was absolutely exhausted and I feel embarrassed to say this but i fell asleep with her in my arms. He woke me up and said ok I'm going go do you want anything whilst I am out! I actually feel emptiness when I see him now
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not sure of resentment but i did feel agitation! where they should be there for you, they seem to vanish! mine went to work the day after our baby was born and it really frustrated me and for a month when i looked at him, i would get annoyed! they say it’s hormone shift or smth …

Is not hormones... any sane human with a heart that is not an idiot with rocks in his head can see.... if a person came from hospital and had broken arm, needs some help before u jump off to go gety smashed... resentment is common.. he's not helping, do u have any help from family? He's a jerk... if he wasn't helping, giving u time to nap, eat, rest etc.. if he did give lot time in day... ya he could of waited and done couple hours or go for hour or so.... like priorities are not there... he needs drinks with bros? Was he home for all week helping?

@Ali absolutely not instead his family rocked up uninvited expecting to be hosted. I do all the night feeds changes whilst he carried on as normal! In terms of help no all my family is unfortunately in another country

@Ali i’m not agreeing with that they’re saying, im just saying they claim it to be hormones lol. he defo needs to get priorities in order

also, i cannot stand when people show up uninvited, it’s so disgusting! have you told him about it?

@Dana when i mentioned priorities he said you know I had a social life before I got married

oh my gosh that’s terrible! there’s a thing called balance 😒😒

Why the fuck is he going to the pub when you’ve just given birth?! He should be in the house with you parenting and supporting you. I would be screaming the house down if my husband said he wanted to go out with friends 6 days after birth

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