Bad husband
My cousin constantly complains about her husband to me and I’m starting not to know what to say. They have two kids together, he barely provides for them. He also has another kid outside their marriage he does nothing for. Her husband disrespects her, he has cheated before and lied about it but she had proof. Of course she took him back after a simple apology n him saying he wouldn’t do it again. I just want her to shut up about it and stay or leave and be free. ADVICE PLEASEEE.
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@Ciara I told her to leave multiple times. She won’t 😞
stop talking to her then. she’s not going to leave until she wants to so until then she will continue to cry about it but it’ll get to a point where you just back away and let her handle her own shit
Ask her what she wants. Sometimes that helps people get solution oriented. If she’s still not getting it, just tell her your boundary.
Tell her the truth, that she’s choosing to stay in that situation and hearing about it over and over again is pointless, it’s pushing you away and you’d just rather not hear about it anymore respectfully. She can learn to keep things to herself and respect that or not have a relationship with you at all.
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Tell her how you feel, it’s the only way she will stop complaining to you about it