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In all honesty my ex was constantly cheating and making me feel bad about it?! He said the same thing that it was 'tearing him apart' If it really was 'tearing him apart' he should've been the one to fess up instead of me finding out!
If he’s already will to do this? Why are you still going to marry him? He’s already ruined your trust before you’re even married & He’s trying to downplay it now because he got caught. He would’ve never told you.
I'm sorry this happened to you because it's really shit
I’m sorry this happened to you. I would have said something right away, what made you wait 6 months to mention it?
@Ragine I hinted at it the whole while and then another situation happened which is why I just put it all on the table and even then he still denying it which is why I said I wanted nothing to do with him because if it was that easy to do it and then hide it whatever else could you be hiding so me calling everything off is now sending him in a manipulation phase tryna make me seem like I’m the aggressor when I’m not going for it
@Rosie exactly how I feel but because of his reaction to my finally coming I just wanted to make sure I wasn’t overreacting
@Erin-mae that’s what I said I told you everything for you to show one hand and hide the other but yet you say I’m supposed to be a “ wife “ how that’s bull shit
@Alexis I don’t cause this was just the icing on the cake it just sucks because it shows no matter how long you be with a person you never really know them to a degree
Why did you wait to say something
Just a horrible situation to be in. Only you can know what to do next. It's difficult but if you leave you'll find something and someone better that you can trust 100%, because you deserve it
You’re not overreacting and he doesn’t deserve you
@Cindy just that hope of him saying something being that I kept basically asking I said “ so would you hide anything from me no matter how big small or silly “ he said no that’ll be lame 😒 but yet he did it then I made a comment about the girl and he kinda made a face and then he didn’t like my childhood “ male best friend that married and has his own family we only texted when we did speak “ but he felt intimidated by it so I stopped talking to him but I waited because I figured he was going to say something and because I hadn’t really accepted it for what it was yet and my granny always told me if you don’t have a reaction to checking a man and going to stand on your own two feet behind it wait till you ready so I guess that’s it
@Erin-mae yeah it just sucks because rn I’m in rebuilding mode so I lost everything to now I have to pick myself up 10x harder and alone cause I now have nobody
He will do it again and again because that's the type of scum he is. Get away as fast as you can.
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You will eventually get back to who you were! The first couple of months will be hard but we're here to support you!xx
@Enola that’s what I ended the conversation with you’ll do it and feel because “ I’m your wife “ I’ll accept it but wrong answer
@Erin-mae yeah I just have to get ready for that that’s the thing
I appreciate all of you thank you so much if I can message yall please like I’m trying to make friends to fill up my time these days lol
That's not a fiance, that's an ex. It's not eating him up. He didn't tell you. He lied and downplayed. Do you want to marry a lying cheater? Get out before you end up married to him.