What should I do? Sorry for the long post.
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Seriously I’m facing the same thing I was even crying before I saw your post I have a 3 months old isn’t getting any better I was have to cook and do everything alone But he was trying at first now he claim to be tired after work but what can I do is just killing me inside
Thank you both for the reply! Honestly don’t really know what to do. I have to do all the housework and stuff as well which is hard enough on its own let alone having to look after a baby as well. He did do much at the beginning especially as I had a c-section so he had to help a lot but I feel like now I’ve recovered he’s just gone back to his life how it was before. It’s so frustrating
it’s very frustrating i think this just happens to a lot of dads they get to keep their lives mostly the same as they’re not the ones who carried who birthed who feed and it’s left on the mother to deal with everything, i’m going through the same thing i have a 4 month old baby too, and two toddlers i’ve basically just accepted that i have to do everything because nobody else is going to do it🙃talking about something like this is difficult to avoid an argument, but just being calm and explaining that you’re upset about it and what you’re thinking/ how you’re feeling that you know he loves you but you just needed to talk about it,🤷🏽♀️ saying something is better than saying nothing x
You shouldn’t feel bad for posting at all so don’t worry about that as you’re just asking for advice! In my opinion I don’t think you should have to ask for the help as she is his daughter too but I would just express how you’re feeling that it’s one sided at the moment and you would like that to change x