Tired
I’ve been with my boyfriend for 6 years and we’re on our 2nd baby together. Lately I’ve been growing distant and tired of him. He always tells me to communicate with him and express how I’m feeling but everytime I do I’m “annoying” “acting bitchy” “complaining about everything”. He’s told me he doesn’t care when we fight cause he’s so confident in our relationship that I won’t ever leave. But I think I’ve been feeling nothing but resentment against him. He can have time to himself and relax without being bothered or do whatever he wants but the second I express any type of exhaustion or complain that im tired or my back hurts he goes straight to “oh here you go with trying to make me feel bad cause I work all day and while you stay home with baby girl and get to sleep in or play all day or go swimming or relax”. Idk what to do. Am I over reacting? Does he have a point? I really just want to tell him that he needs to stop being confident in our relationship cause he’s losing me but I don’t think he’d take me seriously.
I could of wrote this myself, I have 3 year old and an 11 month old and I just feel so fed up, he can do what he wants whenever he wants but I have to ask to even have a shower, he doesn’t take me seriously at all, I say I’m going to leave etc and I never do so he honestly thinks I won’t but I’m at the point I can’t do it anymore. I feel like a single parent and I’d rather be a single parent then put up with him any longer x