Husband annoys me sometimes

Offfff. I understand being upset about what he’s said in the moment. Being confused for someone else, That’s never nice to hear. My MIL does it to her sons, and they hate being confused for each other. But I don’t think it’s fair to say you’re upset he’s had other experiences with women in general. That’s just blatantly a jealousy issue on your side. That you’ll have to work on somehow, or learn to deal with🫤 My hubs was a bit of a fuck boi as they call them. But I don’t dwell on his ex’s or things he experienced with them, I just make sure experiences with me/us are memorable and fun. You got the ring right? You won 🤷🏼‍♀️

To give you a different perspective, I am the forgetful person in my relationship. I haven’t been with lots of people but I have had one long term relationship before my current one and I often remember things incorrectly like “we have been to this restaurant together remember!!” When really it was my ex. It’s not that I’m thinking of my exes it’s in fact the opposite. I’m so fond of my current partner that he replaces my ex in the memory because I enjoyed the restaurant it must’ve been with the person I love now. Idk, like Alexis said it’s just a jealousy thing to get over. But try to think that he loves you so much he forgets about the other girls when he’s remembering his past experiences.

My fiancé was a “fuck boy” back in the day especially when he lost his virginity well early! So yeah that part does make me cringe a little as his is over 100 too and I’ve only been with one other person besides him so I know where you’re coming from in that respect. Though his memory is pretty good so can’t really comment but I can only begin to imagine how that makes you feel. Sometimes though I do think does he wish he was with someone from his past even though he says he doesn’t want anyone else but then again I wouldn’t have two beautiful kids by him nor would we be planning a wedding in 3 years time for our 10th year together

As a person with a higher body count than my bd (I have a great memory and never confused situations) having it always brought up, thrown in my face, “I bet you did this with Y” etc it absolutely sucks, it killed me in so many ways. The past is the past and as much as I had wished I could change that i couldn’t but it also didn’t make me the same person I was at 19yo compared to a 30yo with kids. Things change, we have regrets over things but we can’t change our past. I’m sure there’s things you might regret that you did in the past; think about how you’d feel if the comments you make against him or how you feel were used against you for something you can’t change, that happened before the person was even in your life. As hard as it is try not to hold it against him. I’d think of it more so as KayLee said - you are so in his focus that no one else matters except you, he thinks he’s done something with you because make him happiest.

Do you trust him? Does he give you reason to doubt him? Does he love you? Is he consistent? I’d focus on the now/future & what matters most