Ok so….

My so and I have been together for 20 plus years now he is 45 I’m 40 yrs old and we have 3 kids together ages 19 9 8 but we r lacking sexy time . The only time we have sexy time is when we r high together but even then it’s hit or miss…. I take photos videos and send it to him all the time along with asking for sex too but still no response normally he says he’s tired or blah blah excuse but than we r high together he just wants to to talk to other guys get them hard and horny and than text them n him all at the same time which sometimes it’s fun but normally isn’t fun … so we even tried the lil blue pill too and he still had limp dickage syndrome as I call it… I’m at a loss of what to do . I have needs too and they aren’t being met.