Am I in the wrong?

If you like them dressed that way and said something it’s fr NOT that hard to find something okay. Not even best dressed but looks okay lol. I do think if you got upset at him tho like it may be too much. If it upsets you that much pick out an outfit and set it out for him I do that and tell him where it is I do that even tho my man isn’t horrible at picking clothes he’s good sometimes

…what? How is this even a problem? Kids love crazy colored clothes. 0% of your mental energy needs to be spent matching your kids clothes. As long as it’s weather appropriate, let them wear what they like!

No I get you. Sometimes I come downstairs and she’s dressed in the most bizarre outfit and I look at him like 🤨 he says what? What do you mean what? 😂😂

I don’t see the problem with it if she is comfortable

@Trish if she was dressing herself cool 100% Junie B jones your way through life but the clothes were not weather appropriate they were long sleeve it was 79 degrees here yesterday and her also had her winter coat on her. She has a plethora of clothes I love granamials she also has a bunch of dresses it’s not that hard. That’s not my point it’s the effort. Because he would never walk out the house like that

this really wouldn't bother me. is the issue genuinely just that she was in an outfit that wasn't perfectly matching? as long as my kids are clean, comfortable and happy i don't care!

i just read the above comment about weather. that's fair enough if she was uncomfortable, otherwise i do think it's an overreaction honestly

I would pick out an outfit in advance if it bothers you that much. As long as my partner puts something clean on our daughter I don’t really care what she looks like. She’s now old enough to dress herself and you should see some of the combinations she dresses in it’s hilarious x

I think you are over reacting. Men are not women. Period. It’s not even necessarily laziness. Men think in utility not in fashion style. They think, does it cloth her appropriately, does it fit, is it comfortable? Not whether or not she is most fashionable and color coordinated. You are also teaching your daughter that her clothes matter more than gratitude and that there is something wrong if her clothes don’t look exactly right. She’s a kid, not going for a job interview Stop listening to music that is just priming you to hate your husband.

It may sound daft but I prepare for the weeks clothes and lay them all out so it’s easier to just pick it up and get it on for school x

I mean bye outfit might've not gone together, but were her clothes clean and fitted?

@Janis i have the blessed experience of raising a black daughter unfortunately in a world that is quick to judge based straightly on appearance i work in education and have seen white coworkers quickly to assume children are not well kept or adjusted based on outfit choice but are quick to say white children are cute and creative, i watch my husband prepare himself in the morning hence why i felt he should have more care for our child’s clothing then sending her out looking like anything. Your appearance does matter sadly . Also I can listen to whatever music i want. I watched plenty of women work their asses of to the grave and constantly give men grace and passes just for existing and getting married. Sorry for having expectations she was dressed great today and hair was done without asking he separated all the clothes folded and organized.

@Janis girl what? 😂 you do not know this woman. Also her daughter isn't being taught anything by this situation because she's not privy to it. And who says men don't think in terms of fashion? lol if anything men usually dress kids inappropriately for the weather, missing socks etc (in my experience, since that's all we can speak from)

@Monét Nobody on here knows her. She put herself out there so expect a variety of opinions.

@Janis yeah that you reached for