Need a rant

I’m really struggling with my partner atm It’s like he don’t care about me Our son is 15 months still wakes in the night my partner goes to the gym twice a day 6 days a week and works all week sometimes works away. If I say anything apparently I don’t care about his health and when I ask what about my health I haven’t had a full night sleep he does I don’t get any time to myself as when little one in nursery I’m at work then get him on way home. He doesn’t cook , he only cleans the odd thing all I get is I’m moaning if I say anything

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What is your 15 month olds nap schedule like? Also with all due respect your husband is an asshole.

Working out twice a day 6 days a week is too much . I have a 2 years old and we both work full time . My husband is runner but he is giving me time for workout instead of him . Because I gained lots of weight. I feel bad for him but at this phase my health should be priority. I am not sharing this for comparison but for reference what a good husband should do when partner is in need for break . Talk to your partner and set up a time for yourself 3 days workout or walk and tell him to manage those days . Do not expect him to say yes immediately but be stuck to your plan . Call for babysitter and spend his money on that if he is not giving time .

He will have about 45 minuet nap during the day It’s okay 🤣

I’ve tried to mention it to him but all I get is I’m moaning I’m going to mention him about a baby sitter or I’ve seen some gyms have childcare so I’ll ask if he can join one them if he needs to go gym this much x

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