How do you feel about you’re mother in law thinking she can have a relationship with your children but not you?

@Dana 🦅♥️🤍💙 any advice

I don’t play games with clowns. 😩 My children and I are a package deal.

@Dana 🦅♥️🤍💙 whenever she comes round never speaks to me, what can I do… or makes any effort all one way

Be on the same page as your spouse/children’s father. We went no contact for 2 years. I’m not the one. No visits, no calls, no FaceTime NOTHING. My husband had a come to Jesus talk with her, set the boundaries and she and my husbands father have been abided by ever since because they know not to mess with me.

@Dana 🦅♥️🤍💙 what’s the reasons ML are like this? 😩

I guess, if she's not mean to me or talking shit about me then it's whatever. But like is she coming over and just literally pretending I don't exist? Like I ask a question and she ignores me? Or I say hi and she doesn't respond. Then she can't come over. Thats disrespectful and you're not about to do that in my home. I'd also not go around her or bring my child. I'd def speak to my partner about it so that they can address it with their parents and see if there's an issue on their end and we can work on it or if they just are like that then they can just be like that...away from me and mine.

That's a not up in here lady. My partner's mum has made 0 effort to get to know me in any way, shape or form, didn't ask how me and baby were during my pregnancy, and 2 weeks after I had the baby she was straight up disrespectful about me to my partner. So I guess she just really doesn't want to meet her only grandson? Only explanation I can think of cos I sure as shit haven't done anything to her 🤷🏻‍♀️

@Amber my ML I will say hi how are you, and she will respond with one response then that’s it no more conversation of her taking to me. But wants to play and see my kids 😩

Oh absolutely not! You want to see this baby? This one I made with my body? That I birthed and fed with my body? Then you're gonna show me some damn respect

Im with @Dana 🦅♥️🤍💙 . We're a package if you don't speak to me you don't get the privilege of speaking to my kids. Mil disrespected me and we went no contact for a couple months until she came around she learned quickly I don't fuck around. So respect me

No, I won't be giving her ways to turn my kids against me. She's clearly got an issue with me if she cannot or doesn't want a relationship with me.

She doesn't have to be your friend but needs at least to show you some respect, especially in your own house with your children. Your husband needs to say something too. His mum can't disrespect you like this. and your children will notice too. My MIL is an angel, I'm not sure why some are like this. Maybe jealous ? I really hope I won't become like that but I already think no one is good enough for my son lol 🫠