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I can’t come doggy style. Angle is not right either . I think the closest I get is pushing him inside a lot (yes his dimension are not great) Ahah I’ll keep trying . But will be nice to manage as really enjoy it
On top is THE easiest position for me to cum. I lean back slightly and I use my fingers or my vibrator to hold it against my clit, he doesn’t move at all, I’m grinding sometimes, and he let’s me do my thing and he’s patient for me to get there. It’s not a position for thrusting it’s for me to cum. When I cum that’s when I start tempo and start riding again because another touch can then set me off again, I’m still “coming down” from the orgasm. Which means at that point I go faster. Doggy and other positions is harder for me to cum unless he slows right down, sometimes when I’m very close I tell him to stop moving.
@Kellie I don’t have a vibrator. Something else I’d like to explore. We do lots of thrusting that I enjoy a lot. There is no much space for anything in between but I’ll check next time . Another thing I never done is to touch myself during …. I think I’m still a bit shy to do that . I’m starting to explore my sexuality only now at 45 (with 2 old kids ) ….
I cum with clitoral sensation not penetration so I need fingers or vibrator to cum. Maybe that’s why you are having so much trouble. I don’t cum w just thrusting yes it feels nice but I don’t orgasm, I don’t feel completely satisfied after a good quickie.
I’m the opposite. With a partner I come with penetration . Alone with stimulation. When he’s on top he can reach quite deep.
Have you tried reverse cowgirl then? It hits a different spot when we turn around. Quite deep if you ask me Xx
@Kellie we tried once and was a bit weird . But yes he suggested it for next time . But I like on top as I can kiss him and look in his eyes 🙈… but yes will try that
It help me when im on top and grinding forward to back, but put your bodyweight into it so it like diggs up to a certain spot. My hubby is a good size so it helps
With you on top (cowgirl) or him on top (missionary)? Depends on his size and which way his penis points when erect (up, forward/out, down, or arched). Doggy typically works for most but then you aren't looking at each other.