Community Posts, Tips & Support on Postpartum Care

Honest, unfiltered, and in real-time: what women like you are talking about. Peanut group chats, support, and posts on Postpartum Care.

Hair

Is anyone else’s baby loosing their head hair? My boy is receding like an old man.

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Sadness

I wish I had someone I know and trust to tell them how I really feel and not just a therapist who is paid to listen and give advice. I wish I would have listened to what my partner wanted in the beginning of our relationship so I wouldn’t be in the relationship mess I’m in right now. I wish my relationship was as ea...

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PP depression

Hey ladies. I’ve recently been diagnosed with PPD. This isn’t a pitty party nor am I looking sympathy as I’m sure there is soo many other mummy’s in same position as me. I’m definitely not someone to talk about my feelings as im a very strong person. I’ve never felt so low in my life like I’m in a dark hole and I ...

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Personal Question

Sorry if TMI. But if you feel comfortable answering, after giving birth did “downstairs” change at all for you? Like appearance wise? Idk.. mine just doesn’t look the same as before and I feel so gross about myself 😕

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Separation anxiety

Anyone elses LO going through the trenches of awful separation anxiety? She used to play by herself with me still in the room or I could do things around the house and shed just chill next to me. Now she demands being carried all the time, I can't even stand up without holding her without her screaming at me. It...

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I can’t do this

Seriously, how are you coping with your clingy babies? I can’t do this. Some days are like a big NO. I. can’t do this. My daughter is obsessed with me, she wouldn’t settle with her dad, she wouldn’t settle with any of my family. She cries and screams for me ALL THE TIME. I love her really much, but it’s affecting my...

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Antidepressants

Started zoloft was taking half for 1 week then went to a whole, today i feel like complete shit overcome with sadness and anxiety!! I hate this. I thought the meds were working, i had 1 good week then back to wanting to scream n cry in the shower

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Can’t take it

I had a complete meltdown yesterday I think it was some kind of breakdown, After dealing with the baby alone for 6 months no sleep, dealing with her crying day and night and whinging and teething then being unwell etc she’s a very miserable high needs baby day and night I left the bedroom put her in bed went into...

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I feel like an awful mommy 😭

I'm a stay at home mom, 28 weeks pregnant, and of course have my 19 months old. My husband works from 5am-7pm, so I'm alone all day every day. Things are getting tough for me over here. My little girl bolts any time I try to change her diaper. It's a battle of screaming, rolling around, and taking off. I'm having to...

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Postpartum bleeding or period?

Hi. I’m 2 weeks out postpartum. My bleeding stopped last week and just started again. I’m combo feeding my baby. Is this normal?

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PPR

Does anyone else suffer from post partum rage? Not the sad, anxiety or wanting to lay in bed all day but genuine rage. I can’t stand my loved ones, I only want to be around my baby and I wish everyone else would drop off the face of the planet. If so how do you cope? What have you done to try and make this better ?

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Speechless.

I’m 34weeks pregnant. I recently found that my baby is breach and I might have a c-section. I’m extremely worried. I have a one year old. The only family we’ve got in this country is my MIL who will take care of my firstborn when I’m in labor. She’s very controlling,interfering in everything. Baby’s bath, sleep, ...

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Braxton hicks

I’ve had a huge increase in quantity of Braxton hicks. They are slightly painful too! Like not super painful but annoying and always noticeable. I’ve been having tonsss the past week. That’s just normal right? I’m not like gearing up to go into preterm labor am I?

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Not had sex yet

Anyone not had sex since having their baby? It’s been a longggg time for me 🤦🏻‍♀️🫠

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Postpartum depression maybe??

I’ve really been struggling with my mental health lately, my baby is now 6 months and my partner works night shifts so he sleeps for most of the day which means I do everything for the house and our baby. All the cooking, cleaning, nappy changes, feeds, bathing. He does none of it. I understand that this is just par...

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Personal question

Where are we all having sex? 😂 Obviously for most of us baby is still in the same bedroom at the moment so what do people do?!

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Sex

I’m currently 37 weeks and 5 days and like my man an I be heaven some rough ass sex. I also been getting Braxton hicks contractions recently like badly and my doctor dropped me. So I’m not sure what to do now. Should we not be having like long rough sex?

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Advice please!!

When I was 6 days postpartum my sister in law invited me to her hen do in May for 3 nights/4 days. At the time I instantly said no and that I didn’t want to leave my little girl. My MIL really pushed against my decision and said that I was being ridiculous, to the point she made me cry. It was then agreed that I’d d...

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Postnatal hair loss!!!

Hi all! I’m nearly 4 months postpartum and my hair is falling out so so much! I can literally pull strands of it out and when I brush my hair, it falls onto the floor. I can physically feel it getting thinner. Any suggestions on what to do?!

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I love my baby girl, but I am missing how my life was before I had her.

I find myself mourning the life I had and the routine and ease at which I could do the things I wanted to, such as spend quality time with my husband. At the same time, I feel guilty for feeling this way because I feel so lucky that we've been able to have our daughter, especially when people we know have desperatel...

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