Community Posts, Tips & Support on Postpartum Care

I feel like every time my life gets better, I get into a huge deep depression phase and I’m in one now. I have a great husband but we’ve our love language isn’t the same which makes hard. I have no friends and I’ve been trying so hard and this is my third time trying but it doesn’t go anywhere. My in laws talk crap ...

Well, here I am—suddenly a stay-at-home mom to a wildly active 2-year-old while 4 months pregnant, thanks to federal budget cuts and layoffs. To say I’m terrified is an understatement. I’ve always worked, so this shift is completely new (and overwhelming) for me. SAHMs— how do you do it? What routines, activit...

Hello, I was looking for some advice since my GP surgery and the ones near me constantly say they have no appointments available for months. I want to know if anyone else is going through the same thing. My hair started falling out after having my baby. I thought it was normal post partum hair fallout but it’s bee...

My baby is just over three months old and has had a close relationship with her father and my family since birth. However, over the last few weeks she has started to cry and get hysterical when I leave her with anyone else (including her dad). This is making it very difficult for me to do anything (as in shower, w...

My baby girl is a week old today & I am starting to really struggle with my emotions. One minute I’m absolutely fine, the next I feel very tearful.. Will this subside soon? I feel awful for not feeling happy 100% of the time.

Is it normal to feel angry consistently. I feel like I’m constantly about to blow up and my partner always call me toxic..

New mum to my 2 week old baby girl. Really struggles to settle after her feed and will cry for hours at night. I try everything with changing her, feeding her, burping her. But nothing consoles her. I love her to bits and am so besotted by her just feel so helpless 😔

37 weeks today and for the past two days I’ve had stomach cramps and tummy tightenings, I didn’t have this with my first. Is this Braxton hicks?

Honestly do not want to be here anymore i seriously fucked my whole life up over something stupid I drank when I was pregnant two beers and fireball small glass when I was 26 weeks I feel like I’m rolling in a grave right now

Hello im a sahm to 2 girls. My mom suddenly died and it has flipped my life upside. Idk what to do, I am trying. But I am not okay. My husband is trying but I am angry, anxious, have anxiety and am on the verge of a mental breakdown all the time Idk why I’m writing this, I don’t know what to do

My husband mother passed away. I know he is hurt. But yesterday I felt so disconnected with him. This morning he told me his ex girlfriend mother called him yesterday. Should I be upset over it?

I’ve just found out I’m pregnant and I don’t know how to tell, being completely honest. There was no excitement this time around and I feel so guilty over that. My daughter is my complete and utter world, I felt so excited when I found out I was pregnant with her, but she was planned and this one wasn’t so maybe tha...

I feel so much shame and guilt because this was a planned pregnancy for me but I’ve been under a lot of stress and feel alone.

I’m not sure what it is, but the last few months I’ve constantly been hearing COMPLETE STRANGERS have conversations or make comments about whether I am the Mother to my children - or not. I’m 25 with a 4 year old and 9 month old baby. I’ve always looked much younger than my age, and I’m not a makeup wearing kind of...

Not sure about anyone else but I have been really sad that I am not having a summer baby like I had always wanted. I know I am super lucky to be pregnant, it’s just hardPlease no hating on me for feeling like this. Struggling with my mental health, coming to terms with nothing going to plan and scared about post pa...

anyone else literally hate themselves at this stage? my hair is thinning i fit in none of my clothes due to apron belly my skin is awful and my face is really fat now. pre pregnancy i was a size 6, now because of my tummy im a 10-12. honestly sounds silly but im beside myself. i feel so down and demotivated i can’t ...

Hey mamas, I’m about a week postpartum and have been experiencing an intense stabbing pain under my breast area that makes it hurt to breathe. Until I take ibuprofen, the pain is so bad that I’m completely immobile and gasping for breath. Has anyone else dealt with this? I’m wondering if it’s related to the C-sectio...

So my mom has always been around and very close to me. She said she’d look after my daughter when I went back to work but I said no don’t worry she’s benefit from nursery this was ages ago though. Currently my mom doesn’t have her any days. My daughter also goes to MIL’s which works nicely. Within the last year eve...

Our baby is due on June 8th and it’s my husbands 30th on 29th June. So if she comes on time, she will be exactly 3 weeks old. I’d like to take my husband to the cinema (a film he really wants to watch comes out that week) and for a meal. I’m hoping to breastfeed so I know I’ll be very tied to the baby but also hopin...

Before my son I would brush my hair and naturally the odd strand would come out but now I feel like it’s got so much worse. It’s clumps and my hair just feels unhealthy and thin, whereas before it would look and feel healthy and thick. This picture is when I brushed it yesterday and the second picture in the commen...