Husband refuses to get haircut or trim

Just my personal opinion, but if woman want their hair cut, dyed, permed, and a man says they don’t like it, or if we decide to grow our hair, men do not have a say on it. Why are they not allowed to do anything different? Yes personal hygiene and tidiness is a must in most cases. Also being your husband - does a hairstyle make a marriage come to an end?

As @Jess says, I don’t think as partners we get a say in how our other halves wear their hair. However, what I’d be worried about is why this has changed since the baby is born. How has your husband coped since baby came along? Could the lack of haircuts be stemming from depression, for example, where he’s letting his appearance go because he’s struggling? Or has he just decided he prefers a different style? What has he said when you’ve spoken to him about his hair?

If you want to end your relationship because your husband doesn't want to get his haircut then that says a lot about you... I think you need to reflect on why you feel like you should be able to control him like this. How would you feel of you wanted to change your hair and he turned around and said he is no longer attracted to you and he wants a divorce?

Or just shave it in his sleep if it bothers you that much - problem solved

Thank you everyone. I realized how wrong and awful of a human being I’ve become and I apologized to my husband for past comments. I think he would be better being with someone else since I’m this awful. I let him know that too and I won’t say anything about his looks again.

Hun, don’t take it as people are saying you are awful. God I’ve said some terrible things to my husband when pregnant and since giving birth cos our hormones are all over the place. But coming to this app and reading certain scenarios you do give yourself a slap round the face sometime. Your body has been through something huge and to you it might not be a big thing but deep down it may never would have been. He has stuck with you since last January with the comments so he obviously loves you - but men also do have feelings with things we don’t consider. X

You also have to put yourself in his shoes - woman would hate being told negative things about our looks x

I actually want to commend you. Most of the time women on this app stand by their actions and give excuses as to why it's ok. But, not only have you accepted and acknowledged that what you had said to his is not right, you have apologised to him. That takes a lot, so well done. And to me, that shows that you are a lovely person and worthy of his love.

Giving up on a relationship on a haircut ?… ask yourself that if it’s worth it I’m a mom and I’m still struggling in how to keep up with my hair, hair removal and just me …. :/ it can be hard for some of us so maybe your husband is going thru something you should have a conversation instead Good luck only positive vibes coming at peace ✌️