attached to my partner..

is anyone else so attached to their other half? i saw my partner 2 days ago.. we don’t live together and we’re both under 21.. he goes home occasionally to see his family and he works away from monday to friday.. i feel so awful when he has to leave, i have a whole break down because im so physically, mentally and emotionally attached to him 😩. does anyone else feel really attached? or am i just going crazy..
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I’m exactly the same lol x

Wish I was like that I can’t even go to the toilet with out him following me, can’t seem to get away😂

@Courtney i wish mine was the same 😂🥲x

@Paige it’s so hard! i’m here if you need me! x

@Kayleigh and youu too x

Does he feel the same back? This is normal. I feel attached to my partner but he distanced himself since being pregnant. I wanna tell him how I feel but I feel needy

@Courtney honestly same, i feel like he’s going to say im too clingy or something stupid like that x

I was the same as you, similar situation as well. But the day I gave birth I saw him a lot more as he quit his job to be nearer me and baby! Bjt I can’t imagine going back to the heartbreak of knowing eventually he’ll have to go back home and live hours away. I hope it gets better for you all!

I’m the same way it’s definitely a struggle & I feel like it’s gotten a little more intense since I’ve been pregnant if he’s gone for an hour I’m like how long is this going to taaakkeeee lol

It depends on a lot of things. I definitely wouldn’t think you’re going crazy! But if it makes you feel like you’re going crazy, it could be a potential sign of codependency. Or you’re just incredibly in love with him! There’s a lot of other factors involved. It doesn’t sound like super bad but it sounds like it’s driving you crazy which isn’t healthy then for you! How often are you actually able to see him? Just on weekends? Maybe try to spend a night or two with him during the week as well? Being apart can be hard. Especially while you’re pregnant and wanting that love and support while you’re dealing with a lot of changes.

This feels immature to me. I was definitely like this with teenage boyfriends and they were the same. So I think it's just a stage you grow through.

@Caroline i’m not immature lol, we’re both adults and we just have a lot of love between us.. being pregnant has opened a whole new box of emotions and it’s not immature to be in love with him..

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