Am I the problem? In laws

I have been married 3 years, have 2 under 2 now. Husband called his parents over after we argued to “help” us solve the problem. He has done this numerous times before. The argument started off because I was crying, and when he asked why I was crying, I said that it was because MIL wasn’t talking to me when we went down to her house. He got frustrated with me for being upset, this escalated and then we got into a massive argument. Cutting to when his parents came, they all said that I am too sensitive, that I think everything revolves around me and they all basically were having a go at me including my husband. I have no family here or friends and they are my only support network. My father in law kept saying that I don’t try and got into his family and that I have cause my husband to turn insane because he has to live with me. Is this bullying?

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Def bullying. But also, message me, let's be friends, we can have rants about annoying in laws and everything x

To answer your main question, you're def not the problem!

Hell no that’s group gaslighting and I am sooo sorry you had not one but 3 people making you feel like a problem and like you’re crazy

That’s exactly my story, please don’t let them manipulate you please. They are trying to safe themselves and their son. After so many years on my marriage now I have understood it. They are not your parents so don’t ever think they will support you. Please make some friends so you can discuss your issues or feelings with a friend. And also don’t have much expectations from in-laws. If your mil does not talk to you, why are you feeling upset? It’s her behaviour you should greet her nicely and let it be if she does not respond. Don’t forget your manners and don’t let them hurt you. Please use your energy for your kids they need you the most. Not your in-laws. We can be friends you can msg me x look after yourself dear!

You need to stick up for yourself its hard with 2 kids as well they should be supportive. Speak to ur husband as well and find another way to chat about problems that is more private. Hope u feel better soon

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