Am I too young

Hi mommies I am feeling a bit wired , well my baby is going to be 3 months and today first. Time I went to baby’s group . It was nice for my baby to see other baby of his age . But I feel a bit wired for me . There were all ladies older than me ( am 23 ) . And no one literally feeling to talk with me . I felt bad inside . I don’t why they didn’t talk to me .. but yes I feel good for my boy … Any advice what I can do ??
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Im 25 with my first not even born yet i dont think youre to young... Its be to young if you were like 14. Honestly if you feel weird about it maybe talk to the runner of the groups and see if there are any group with youre age of moms in them! Or start youre own!

you aren’t too young! i’m a young mom too, had my baby at 21. i definitely have a hard time connecting with older moms. i say try it again, if it’s not a good fit try somewhere else!

I was 20 when I started going to prenatal group, then baby group. When I was new, people didn't really talk to me. But after the first two or three times I made some friends! I'd say try a few times before you decide if it's right for you.

I very very doubt it’s anything to do with your age. I’ve been a nanny for 17 years and joined many new ‘baby groups’ I always feel like this at first. You just gotta worm your way in! 😅

It might be the group you have gone to. I went to a group and had such an amazing time and made so many friends. Then I went to another cause I wanted to experience it again and it was totally the opposite! Maybe see if there is another one you can attend?

i’m 29 and a lot of the ladies in my playgroup are your age and don’t really talk to me 😆 you just have to try and insert yourself into conversation x

I had my baby at 20, don't allow people to judge u for ur age, things happen for a reason so nothing wrong with it x

I was the same also 23 and my baby is 9months. I started to go to a baby class when she was 3 months and there was 90% older mums like late 20s 30s and even early 40s. I felt judged and like they were looking down on me, but I still kept going and after a while I got to chat to the mum next to me and then the next week it was different mum beside me and just kind of went with the flow and now I talk to 3/4 mum regularly during the class. So I would say just stick with it and see how it goes. Personally I’m pretty shy and don’t like to put myself out there but it kind of just happened and the feeling of being judged just started to go away and it feels more comfortable. Hope that helps 🤗

Thank you so much everyone I gonna try again sure ❤️❤️❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

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