Definitely brags. Sure, braggers can be annoying, but people who are always finding reasons to complain just mess up the mood, and I’m trying to have a good time 🙄
I'm fully aware I complain a lot (I'm working on it) but I try to at least make it funny
I cannot deal w constant negativity. At least w bragging I can choose not to let it get to me, I can choose to roll my eyes and walk away and turn it into a joke, or tone down their bragging. I don’t like and don’t want constant negative people around me so I choose to distance myself who complains ALL the time. Some complaining here and there is okay, I can deal w that. Not all the friggin time. No thanks
Complaining 24/7 would drive me nuts. I can't deal with the negative energy that would bring. I definitely would rather be around a bragger. Bragging is easier to tune out and wouldn't put me in a sour mood like complaining might. Negativity it contagious.
I’m not sure honestly my ex bff thought the world was out to get her only complained listing her problems (which were lack of weed and money her mom and gma supplied wheneverrr) and that was tough. But a bragger I can’t w someone w a big head, my other ex bff was in your face bragger made me feel insecure how passively she looked down on me idk
I'm really focusing on bringing positivity into my life so I would prefer someone who brags even if it's annoying.
Bragging. I cannot start whinging and moaning, the negativity is infectious and just exhausting to listen to.
Depends on the bragger and depends on the complainer honestly. There's a way to do both. Both in excess can be very draining. I like to complain with humour and try to laugh at messy situations. And I don't brag a lot (at all maybe). A complainer who does it in a fine way could be very funny actually.
brags all the time. i’ve been around both and honestly..i don’t see bragging as a bad thing unless you’re easily insecure or jealous. i love being happy for my friends and their little accomplishments/small wins- or large achievements. i think people should brag more often! people who constantly complain though..just always sounds and feels miserable to be around. the ones i knew never wanted to change or better themselves/their situation, they were just happy to complain
A complainer 100%