Is it normal to be so indecisive to having a second child?
Is it normal to want to have a second child then get scared and think you won’t be able to cope?
I really want my LO to have a sibling and get sad when I see them playing alone, however when my LO acts up or is challenging I question how will I keep sane
Why do I feel so hopeless 😢
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absolutely I chop and change my mind all the time not a decision to take lightly, as someone that isn’t close to their siblings i’m unsure whether I want to give my little guy a sibling and in the next breath i’m like oh it’s a shame just to have one! you’re not alone!
Definitely very normal to feel that way, it's a big decision
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It’s normal. It’s another big change in life and that can be scary. I’m pregnant with baby 2 and both excited and worried about the new dynamic. I’ve been through waves of “can I do this?”, “how could I possibly love them the same as I love my daughter?”, “it’s going to be amazing”, “it’ll be so much fun when they can entertain each other”.