I’m not usually sure what to say when they give advice because usually I’ve already tried what they are suggesting
i am big on, if i don’t specifically ask for it i don’t want it. if i needed or wanted advice i would simply ask for it! i hate unsolicited advice.
Some people don't know how to listen without giving advice or genuinely want to help, I listen but only follow the advice that feels good/right.
If you are telling someone about a situation it is normal for them to give advice, unless you specifically tell them that you just need to vent and don’t want advice. I would only be bothered by advice if I didn’t mention a situation to someone and they try to give me advice about it without me bringing the topic in the conversation.
@Svetlana came here to say this!
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I’m open to advice as long as the person offering is polite about it and not trying to cram it down my throat!