I cant wait to have a real man in me and my sons life 😣

Same! I recognized that I’ve grown & to continue growing I can’t be around him. It’s more painful to dwell around that negative energy

I feel that. I can't wait to have a man that treats me right and is a good father figure to my son.

@Marlenny i feel like once we do the inner work it becomes more realistic for someone to step in.

Sometimes being fed up is enough

@Marlenny Right ! I just can’t wait!

@Amarisa yes thats not going to half ass and provide the bare minimum at every single opportunity.

My bd watched me struggle to get ready with the kids for me to meet my sister at the hospital cause she was giving birth. Yesterday I decided not to be upset, it was simply confirmation that I was with the wrong person. His excuse is that I woke him up & he was upset and needed time to cool down & regulate his nervous system. He takes medication, but idc that honestly was him as always putting his feelings above the bigger picture

@Marlenny riiiggghtt i figured out that my pet peeve are now no consideration and being self absorbed . CONSTANTLY missing the bigger picture cause they are too consumed by their own thoughts

@Marlenny but now i understand that thats all not normal. Its okay to have your days we are human but its flat out a character flaw for some

No it’s not normal at all. I asked him if he wants to partner to feel free to be or confined in the relationship. He said he doesn’t know when it comes to me. That was all I needed to hear… wrong answer 😂 I’m out ✌️

@Marlenny 😂