Alone

Does your partner know how you're feeling? Sadly most don't, they we got it and don't need any help especially if you're a stay at home mom like everything is your job. That's definitely not true. You made the kids together they're both of job and when it comes to cleaning if one person was destroying a house no one would expect another to come in and clean it without pay or anything. It's a house for everyone so everyone helps . Your feelings are completely valid!!!

@Samantha unfortunately now all he cares about is himself he doesn’t make her a priority for example, claims he’s is sick but is well enough to play his game but not well enough to take care of this daughter. If I’m sick I still have to do it.

@Teca I completely understand! My husband is the same! He's been helping a bit more now, I've been voicing it pretty loudly that I'm not happy and he needs to do better

@Samantha unfortunately we are no longer together and I’m the only one by myself so if I voice anything he just runs to his mom or brother telling his version which makes me look bad

@Teca ugh I'm so sorry! It's definitely not fair to you, it's easy to lose yourself in your kids and hurts when you don't have that support system 😔

Your post came up on my feed and then looked briefly at your other posts. It’s late here so might not have read them right. But I think you deserve better and so does your daughter. You’re beautiful and so is she. And you’re worthy of more from all that I’ve read that you’ve given and do for this person. I’d never condone a family unit to be a non family unit but it sounds like he isn’t part of it in any way anyway. You deserve better. If I was someone close to you, I’d say go find what you deserve elsewhere and leave this person who doesn’t deserve you