@Danielle no I’m not, my youngest is 3 😩and it was like this even before kids.
It could just be how your body stores fat. As far as I'm aware, there's no real way to lose weight in that area 😔.. But I get you though, can have a terrible effect on your self esteem. If it makes you feel any better, some men are actually more attracted to (as Jamaican men would call it) 'phat pum pum gyal' '!.. Some guys just like it a lil meaty😉😏
@Sudanny✨ aww 😞 Are they? My partner doesn’t mind it but I won’t show him 🙈 my actual vagina lips aren’t fat, it’s just my pubis
Yeah, plus it's so common. I think it's cuz we see the 'perfect vagina' so much in mainstream media, that we forget that there's a lot of women out there with plump pubis. If it bothers you too much, you could always look into liposuction on that area🤷🏾♀️
@Sudanny✨ think I will look at getting liposuction on that area because it really really bothers me 😞
Aw girl, I get it. If I could do something about the thing I'm insecure about, I would. Good luck with it 💕
I thought men liked fat ones tbh.
Mine isn’t flat and I never thought about it. I guess I like it pretty well. It looks cute in undies now that I look at pictures. Pillowy. 😊 The only time it wasn’t my favorite was when I was shopping for a bodycon dress. I really wasn’t expecting for it to be on display lol. But it’s just our body. It should be fine for it to show. There’s a lot more diversity in bodies than books (and movies and porn) show. I just read an article about labia representation in medical books, and none of them show labia minora showing outside the labia majora! When many many of us have labia minora that DO show beyond the labia majora! Genital diversity is so under-represented that labiaplasty rates increased 73% since 2015!!!!! We need more representation. Our bodies are great! And beautiful! ❤️
@Allexys I’ve never heard of men liking a fat pubis 🙁
@Ele yeah mines the same under tight clothing too 👎🏻 I hate it so bad! There’s no need for it because my vagina lips aren’t puffy at all I would love the fat to go in my pubis.. I’m not bothered about changing my actual vagina as that’s quite neat and tucked away.
@Sudanny✨ yeah I understand all women look different down there but it’s not my actual vagina i have a problem with.. it looks fine and is tucked away… it’s just my fat pubis it looks so unsightly
@Sudanny✨ wow!!! I love it!!!!!!! This is such an important work. Thanks for sharing.
It is hard when a part of you doesn’t look the way you want it to. I hope you feel ok about it one day. But yeah if it causes you distress there’s no real reason you can’t get lipo. I just want all of us to feel worthy is all. ❤️
Yeah, I totally get you girl. I hope you can find a way to feel better about it 💕
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@Ele yeah, it's amazing! 👌🏾✨
Are you freshly postpartum? Mine stayed fluffy until around 6 months postpartum.