I understand completely. I LOVE LOVE LOVE my son so much but I wish Iād have never had children. I miss my freedom and my ability to do what I want when I want. I feel so trapped now and if I want to give him a sibling I have to start this all over. Donāt feel guilty for your feelings so long as you maintain trying your best as a parent. Itās rough out here. Kids are one of the most difficult things out there
I agree with you and all these other ladies! It's so hard but at the end of the day if you look at those beautiful little faces and it doesn't all feel worth it to you then you've got yourself a problem, otherwise feeling this way is more common than you may think and pretty normal. 90 percent of the time I feel unhappy. I'm tired physically mentally and emotionally. I get little to no help from my daughter's father and even though he's in the picture I still feel so alone. Does my husband understand what I'm going through? Absolutely not! Only mothers will ever understand what we are going through and not even all of them but just know most of us are going through the same thing, have gone through the same thing or knows someone who's going through the same thing. Some days , hell most days, I feel like jumping in my car and leaving my life behind. House, husband, kids and all. But the reality is that it does get easier, I know this for a fact and we will be happy we didn't run away.
It's not that this life isn't for you, it's that your in an environment that doesn't allow you to fully enjoy this life God has gave you. Remove yourself from the situation you're in and place yourself in another situation you'll probably be so much happier than you are now and you would love this life I know easier said than done but my point is, it's most likely the people around you that's making you feel like this not the fact that you had a child/children.
I'm having very challenging times with my little one. Feel like I'm going insane and feel like I'm doing something wrong as LO does not nap or sleep well. 6 months on... people have always said it gets easier but I don't feel like it has yet, there's always something unsettling going on
Thank u so much for being honest with ur journey! Please keep sharing ur struggles with other women cuz u have no idea how much u would be helping someone else. I made so many calculated decisions when it comes to my motherhood journey because I learned and listened to women who werenāt afraid of talking to me abt their struggles. Yes, this journey is ābeautifulā in so many ways, bt as woman I think we need to stop āromanticizingā motherhood because itās not all rainbows, roses & butterflies. I think if more & more women were āhonestā with each other, a lot of women wud realize that motherhood is not for them. Thank u for ur truthful testimony. I feel for u and wish u the best of luck mama X They say the days are long & bt the years are short :)
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Oh š¢ first of all itās a good thing that you are letting it out! There are ways to make it better! You are probably burn out ! Iām a coach focusing on parenting! I can support ( pro bono ) for 6 weeks if you wish! Message me and I can help you figure some things out! ā¤ļø I feel moms donāt get the support they need and would love to help !