is it just me?

is it just me or is it so lonely being a new mum. i’ve lost all my friends, i spend 99% of my time at home alone. my social anxiety is getting worse because i only have myself as company. i’m petrified to go to a mum group, it’s so bad i spend half my morning throwing up and i don’t even go. i’m so lonely 😭 picture of my little girl so we don’t get lost 🥰
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i’m the exact same!! lost all my friends when i had my baby and now alls i do is go uni and come back home to my little one

@lisha i literally spend every single day at home with my LO. my partner left 3 weeks after i gave birth so it’s just me and her at home 😫 i’d do anything for a little social interaction but at the same time keep tf away from me 😭😭

@Ash me and my partner broke up before i had my little boy but got back together a few months ago but he works so much that he’s hardly ever home himself. always here if you wanna have a little chat i know how hard it can be!! xx

Oh sorry to hear this. Your never alone and your so to young to think you will be. Your confidence will grow and you will become a lot more social have faith. ❤️❤️❤️

Gosh your baby is adorable! 🥰 Trust me, no matter what age almost every new mum loses her friends after a baby. It’s a life changing experience and you’ll know who the real people are in your life. It’s hard but you’ll find your people sooner than later.. ❤️

My son is turning two next month and I haven’t made a single new friend, I’ve been trying to survive 😂 he plus with new kids and everything I get to be lonely. My husband luckily is very loving

I’m 25 and feel the same way. I forgot how to have conversations 😅

I get the feeling! My fiancé works constantly and I’m a sahm, it’s so lonely 😩 I rarely go out with my son other than to the park. I’m honestly going to start trying out mom groups though. I think it’ll be a positive change (hopefully)

Same here!! I feel like I've lost all my social skills

I'm currently feeling the same way since I had my son, and my husband works alot.

I lost all my friends when I had my son, went through depression and a terrible break up. He is almost 7 now, I didnt lose friends, I lost haters. To this day Im careful of who I let around my son, those women who claim to be bosses, but really just snakes in descise. None of its worth it.

Could you maybe see if someone on here local to you could go with you to a group?

I honestly feel this! I’m 33 but I used to be this social butterfly before kids and now it’s like I want to make friends but I have such bad social anxiety that it’s almost better being alone 🙈 my social life is going to work 🫤

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