Lack of emotional support

Hello mamas! Just a little vent sesh here: I’ve been having a tough pregnancy and have had some health issues. Im currently 36 weeks and will be induced in 2 weeks due to health concerns. Ive been very uncomfortable and last night I had some contractions. I woke up my husband and said ‘Im having some contractions’ to which he said ‘Me too’ and then rolled over and passed out. Thankfully they passed. I was upset with his response but thought it might have been because he was exhausted from work and got up in the middle of the night to tend to our 18 month old and so this morning I said to him again ‘Last night was very rough for me. I had some contractions’ to which he said ‘Yeah tell me about it…me too’ I am so hurt by his lack of sensitivity around this. I honestly rather go into labor on my own than have his insensitive ass there.
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I’m sorry that’s happening to you that’s not fair of him to do to you as being pregnant is Probaly taking a tole on you pyscislly and mentally and men don’t understand how it affects are body and emotions have you had issues with him before? Or is he recently just started acting like that.

He was very supportive when I was pregnant with our first. He was attentive and kind. This pregnancy I feel like Im navigating alone to be honest. He has been very absent minded. Its hurtful.

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Have you tried talking to him why he’s been acting that way during your second pregnancy?

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