We have been together 81/2 years 4 year old and 9 month old and we buy for Christmas still. We don’t go majorly over the top like a birthday but we get a few things so eachother isn’t left out💙 Maybe have a talk and ask if he wants to start buying just like one gift for eachother or something x
Well I mostly get him some gifts as if they are from the kids x
We do but if we didn't and I found something perfect, I'd get him it anyway. Knowing there's a chance you wouldn't have something yourself. But if you think it would make him feel guilty for not having one for you, just tell him you know normally yous don't get gifts but this year you're going to, just as a heads up 🙂
If it's perfect for the occasion, just give it to him 🤗. If he says he hasn't gotten you something, you could get yourself something for him to gift you or write a voucher for something that doesn't cost anything like massage, then he is not empty handed.