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We’ve been trying for a baby the last 3 years and I’ve lost 7 babies! We’re planning to have a wedding this year! I have lost both of my tubes so now we have to go through ivf! We want our baby but also want a wedding! I am so torn between which one should come first! I definitely have a few more years before I turn 40 and not wanting kids after. Which is the best way to go through ivf or the wedding first?

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I got married 6 weeks after I had my first baby. Anything is possible🤷🏼‍♀️

@Sarah🦄 I wish I still had my tubes the process would be so much easier! Going through ivf money and more money! I am glad you got everything you wanted 🥰

Honestly and keep in mind I don’t know how old you are but I know IVF is extremely expensive. I would try IVF/freeze some eggs and do a courthouse/elopement. At 5 or 10 years you could have the big grand wedding of your dreams and hopefully you would’ve had your child by then. But I’m assuming since you said a few more years you are in your mid 30s so if you wanted more than one definitely IVF with a small courthouse wedding. You can absolutely get married without the wedding

Sending hugs🤗 What I meant by my last comment. It doesn't matter what order you do things in, if you would like to do somethung then do it! I hope that you achieve your dreams.

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