Broke up with my boyfriend but he still bought a secret Santa gift for my family tonight what does this mean ?

maybe he is just being respectful towards your family if he was invited

He’s been invited for the past few christmases so maybe

I think he's just being nice. I wouldn't get my hopes up if he didn't talk about anything else.

Honestly it is about that. I he’s always the one that’s wanted to stay together but I’m always the one putting in work communicating. I thought this was him saying I’m not done fighting for the relationship but maybe I’m wrong

if you’re so curious you can ask him, especially if you’re not wanting it to be over. just a simple conversation to clear your mind and see where things are headed

I've kept in touch with my exes parents a good few months after we were done. If you're unsure talk to him.

I want to talk to him but I also don’t want to be the one that initiates putting the pieces back together after every fight. But I might. I did tell him “we’re done” very impulsively and then acted on it for the first time

I’d have to analyze his personality 😅

It’s for your family. I wouldn’t read into it more than that. It doesn’t sound like he did it to reconcile

If you’re always the one putting work in and communicating it’s because you’re the only one that wants the relationship. All he has to do is say he does and do nothing so he’ll never do more. He’ll just drive you crazy fighting to make something work that’s one sided

Umm we picked our KK last week. If anyone were to break up and not buy that person their gift, they’d be left out. That’s not fair. So doesn’t matter if he’s picked a name for SS- he needs to buy it. Simple as that. Has nothing to do w your relationship. My hubby still has to buy his KK gift and I still have to buy mine- regardless if we break up or not. I have my BIL and he has my sister as KK. We still need to buy and gift those gifts regardless where our relationship is at. If he’s invited all the other years then makes sense that he’s there.