When to stop?
What a journey so far..
After a miscarriage in March of 2023 followed by an ectopic in July resulting in my left tube being removed I finally thought we were getting our little rainbow, after our first (and only NHS funded) round of IVF we finally made it to 12 weeks.. Or so we thought, at 12+4 we had our scan to be heartbroken all over again and told there was no heartbeatđź’”
After saving and saving we were able to undergo our second FET which was again successful, however I knew something was wrong. It had again resulted in a ectopic pregnancy this time in my right tube. We then had to make the heartbreaking decision to remove the tube as it was not functioning as it shouldđź’”
I feel like such a failure of a woman, I have no means of getting pregnant naturally and my only hope is further rounds of IVF.. I don’t know how to get my head around everything, what if it never happens for me? All I’ve ever wanted to do is be a mother💔
You are not a failure. I know it’s heartbreaking. I went through my first miscarriage last month and literally didn’t want to exist for a week after. But women were put on this earth not just to give birth but to live. You are a miracle and have nothing to be ashamed about, and you didn’t fail. And hopefully you will get what you desire, but it may look different than how you pictured. Have you done any tests? My husband is doing a sperm analysis, I’m contemplating getting some tests as well.