Wtf definitely not
A lot of these AITAH questions don’t make any sense. Why do you think you would be the asshole in this situation?
I'd be leaving that man, to be honest!
Same story every year from so many women. I’d be taking that to mean that we are doing our own presents and I’d never do anything for him. Don’t do anything else for him, not Father’s Day or birthday. But celebrate yourself. Do it all! And when he gets upset, you can tell him that his behaviour at Christmas conveyed the message that we were doing our own shit. Fuck him.
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