I feel you … sex toy as a Xmas gift would get me ragging . Mine got me a my fav body mist … not too expensive but it’s the thought that he knows that’s my fav that me me appreciate
My husband doesn't wrap presents and always forgets the things I want. So last week he took me Christmas shopping at my favorite stores as my present.
I got nothing. And he left me and my daughter to eat at his parents.
I have been married 6 years, together for 7. Maybe twice I got something for Christmas and 1 or 2 birthdays... he's never gotten our son anything. At Christmas he just played video games with his brother while the women cooked and watched 5 kids!
oh and the early gift was a new vibrator… which is great but i kinda want more from my husband at christmas than a sex toy.