Christmas presents

Take your cousins back but don’t bring the kids into it lol , they probs would’ve come if they knew you’d got them something and they was capable 😂

@Olivia they dropped of a gift for my son on the 24 I told them I’d drop their off the 25 (since we have to drive into their town) I have been telling them all week. Yesterday I guess my family (his uncle my dad ) wasn’t home but that was cap so I really just want to bring them back. It’s nothing big or expensive but it’s the time I put in. And from what they got my son after spending days on end with them really got me butt hurt but idk I’m just reacting on emotion.

You said you’d drop it off at their house? Why havnt you yet? If you told them you had one then yes it’s petty

@H I can see why you’re hurt I would be too but I’d just say again to think about not returning the kids gifts , it might be a little pretty but I’d return the adults 😂. I’d post the kids the stuff and just send a message like “ I’ve posted the kids stuff so no need to stop by now :) “ Always better to remind civil when it comes to the kids

@Gabrielle I’m pretty sure they’ve been blowing her off saying they want in when she said she was dropping them off , but they was actually in? That’s what I gathered anyways

@Gabrielle no their house my dads house and the are 25 min from there and I told them before Christmas on Christmas and literally yesterday

@Olivia im more like if they cared for the kids they would’ve most definitely stop already instead of waiting until now?

I'm a little big confused. If you said you'd drop them off then just drop them off at the door. They don't need to be home to receive the gifts if it's not big or expensive. The next time you're in their area just drop them off and be like "I'm dropping g off the gifts. If you're not home I'll leave them at your door." I'd return the adults gifts since they're being weird haha but not the children.

Okay I told them BEFORE AFTER AND ON CHRISTMAS that I was leaving presents at my dads for them because they celebrate the 24. My partner and i celebrate Christmas Day. Since we drive into town. They live 25 minutes from my dads house where the gifts are at

@Chris ok thanks same thought no the kids fault I know the would’ve picked it up that day 😂

But.....why did you leave them at your dads house.....when that is a 25 min drive for them? You should have dropped them off at THEIR house or posted them. You've literally given them a chore to do. Also just btw if you read back through the thread, your post and comments have typos/words missing and you didn't say it was at your dads house til 3 mins ago. That is why everyone is confused.

So yeah no, don't go get them. They'll pick them up next time they visit your dad, whenever that is. You can't ungift a gift.

@Ella because we are their only family here and they live an additional 25 min away and I already drove 1.5hrs and don’t think it’s fair since they are already said they’d stop by

@Ella I know I’m in the middle of driving back to pick up something I left at my dads. He won’t use them and if they aren’t going then they don’t need to be there I know people who will love what I had gotten them.

I agree with Ella on this. You can’t take back a gift. It’s also only been less than a week…give them time to collect the gift. I would understand if it’s been a couple months or so

Bahaha okay just wanted some input I could just overreacting on how much work I put in and to still see it just sit there pissed me off

People are busy maybe they haven't had the time to collect them. As long as they are where you have said they are just leave it

I did indeed leave them lol oh well

It’s a busy time of year ! Not really a big deal - I would drop them off

@Jade they have been dropped off since the 25 lol

But yess

They may just be busy. I would give it time and definitely not be upset about it.

Do they routinely go to your dad's house? Like if they go about once a month, I would fully expect them to pick them up on their next visit and not make a special trip just to go get them

I still say if you want to return your cousins, return it but keep the kids or post them to them. Don’t bring the kids into petty drama , they probably would’ve rode their bikes over if they knew you had presents for them and was allowed too. don’t punish them for what their parents have done

@Olivia it’s like okay take it back like he won’t even know (the child) I’m not sure if his parents told him i got him anything so it’s either way in his eyes I didn’t get him anything anyways lol I felt bad and left everything where it was but I’m serious a few more days and I’m bringing them home with me 😂

@H yeah I think you’re being realllllll petty , and just mean if you’re gonna return the kids stuff 😬

@Olivia 😂 idgaf obviously they don’t fuck with me 😂 so idc if im the bad guy 😂😂

@H Then why ask if you’re being petty if you know and don’t care ?? 😂😂

@Olivia I meant if I picked them up then I’d be the bad guy but I didn’t lol at least yet I cared more yesterday 😂😂😂😂😂