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@Ellie I know I should leave it’s just more the how, we’ve lived together for 4 years, i don’t really have anywhere to physically go and I just feel so embarrassed that I fell in love with and had a child with an idea of a person that was all a lie 💔 to me if he could lie about this what else could he lie about
FUCK THAT. No way would I have drugs or someone on drugs around my baby, nope!
I understand it’s not just as easy as leave but if there’s any way that you are able to please do. Reach out to your health visitor n explain that you wish to leave but havs no where to go and she might bs able to help you with a temporary mum n baby shelter or something
What if your child found his wallet and was playing with it and came across a full packet???? What then? I know it’s hard to leave someone after a long time TRUST ME I left someone I lived with and had a child with after 9 years because it was a toxic situation for our Son, 9 years later and he is way better off! And I’ve found someone amazing and we have an amazing life with our little family. It’s going to be hard, but in that situation you need to put your baby first. You gave him an opportunity to tell you the truth and he lied. Now you have evidence of the lie, and that he’s doing drugs and bringing them into your home with your child. You have every leg to stand on to tell HIM to leave. You don’t need to go anywhere!
Leave immediately if you can. I would not have your child around him you don’t know if he’s on them rn n he’s just that immune to it that he doesn’t seem high but he is. LEAVE