It is not you and you are not a bad mum, at all. Your baby is not feeling well now and he looks miserable, but doesn't mean it's your fault. It's not. Keep doing what you are doing, it will pass. I can understand you also feel guilty towards your daughter, and I'm sorry I can't offer any advice there cause I've got only one child. But it is a phase, it'll get better. Sending hugs and love
My boy is very aggy, like he can be super smiley and laughing lots but he needs constant attention and stimulation otherwise he gets grumpy - sometimes he’ll be laughing and just burst into tears and it’s so confusing 🤣 my boy is definitely a sensitive soul - I think it’s different temperaments but yes it’s definitely exhausting!
Yes exactly this my daughter is nearly 3 and was a dream compared to my current baby!! She won't be put down!! Screams all the time and needs constant attention yet outside the house is as happy as can be 🤯 it's definitely our baby's and not our parenting these second baby's are out to get us 🤣
I remember my first wasike a text book baby. Slept 8 hours, fell asleep wherever she was put nice and quietly and emptied her bottles. Very content and happy. My second pretty much the opposite. Can't stand to be alone, doesn't sleep through and doesn't finish bottles 🤣 which makes her upset for more within the hour. Constantly reheating her milk. She's unsettled unless she's being fed or entertained
My boy is miserable🤣 he’s 5 months and all he does is moan, only had 1 belly laugh and is just all round moody, we get smiles but he goes back to moaning straight after🤣 I feel you, it is very defeating when you’re trying your hardest x