Partners not understanding

Little rant: I hadn’t felt baby boy move since 8pm last night and he’s a very active baby and still nothing all day which I usually do! Told my partner I want to go checked out for peace of mind and he was like your probably over reacting (baby boy is perfectly fine once we moved him) He was head down and that’s why I couldn’t feel him but it wasn’t like him so needed peace of mind. I was always told if you don’t feel them get checked and I feel better now I did even tho I had a fright as they couldn’t find his heartbeat for a good 10 mins! I just feel like he doesn’t understand! And I feel very alone and isolated during this pregnancy! I know I have an amazing support system but I feel so alone and feel like no one understands how I feel! He’s an amazing partner and does everything for me but I just feel alone and don’t know why! I constantly break down because of it and it’s killing me! I feel like he hates me most of the time when I know he doesn’t! We can’t share a bed atm as I’m struggling to sleep so I sleep on the sofa out the way! Pregnancy is so hard and I just can’t wait to have baby boy here and hopefully feel normal again Sorry for the rant
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How many weeks are you, I did bring it up with him, he needs some AN classes, why are you sleeping on the sofa when you are the one who is pregnant. I think you need to be more selfish here, it’s his baby he needs to do more.

@Joyce I’m 23 weeks, I sleep on the sofa as it’s comfortable for me and I sleep better than the bed for some reason! He’s an amazing partner he really is but it’s not about him it’s how I feel in general I don’t think he understands I’m grieving someone at the same time and I’m just all over the place x

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