How to relax..

Been trying ttc for 6 months now, no luck, everyone says when you relax or “forget about it” it happens… i’ve tried to relax i.e no early testing etc but how do you stop trying how do you let it just happen? i feel the time in the month you can get preg is so limited that not tracking or trying on those days just limits your chances even more..

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Maybe it would help becoming more familiar with the signs your body is ovulating eg mucus changes etc so you can recognise your fertile window without testing x

I could try that but then even with the TWW, i’ve tried so hard not to symptom spot or get in my head about it but it’s so hard, i’ve heard a lot of people say when they stopped trying they got pregnant..

Sorry to hear. I am on the 14th month 😢. I think this whole people say it happens when u relax or don't think about it is the stupidest myth I've ever heard. I would just keep trying and tracking hopefully it will happen. I got pregnant on my 8th month of trying for my 2nd unfortunately thar ended in a chemical. But 6 months you still have alot of hope x

Only people who don't understand the pain of constant disappointment say this to people. It's the stupidest thing I've ever heard! Deciding to try for a baby is fun and exciting, it's only natural that failure will cause stress. My advice is to find a routine that is comfortable for you. If symptom tracking and early testing feels right for you, then do that. Nobody can tell you how you should feel or deal with it. I will say though, if you get to a year, definitely make an appointment with your Dr so get some tests done to see if there is a medical reason x

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