Ttc for a year

I fell pregnant after 3 miscarriages.

@Katie what did you do to conceive? Did you do anything differently after the 3 miscarriages?

I just researched lots of different ideas 🙈 bit minging after sex but.... During sex pillow under bum. When your done extra pillows under bum immediately. Legs up in the air so the liquid doesn't come out

It's possible to get pregnant on your period, however, thats extremely rare and I wouldn't use that as a TTC method. Your period is meant to get rid of the egg that wasn't fertilized. Have you tried tracking your LH and/or BBT?

@Katie I have already done this so many times! And I still do😩

@Michelle yes I have been doing both each cycle😩

Have u tried the cold shower for your partner? That's supposed to do something. Before sex obviously my friend got pregnant that way

@Katie no I haven't! Never heard of that? So he takes a cold shower just before sex?

Yeah supposed to help.. thats how one of my friends got pregnant

@Katie thank you will try that

I know its so hard as I've been there myself it feels like it would never happen for me but I've had 3 miscarriages and got pregnant so there is hope. I duno if it was the pillow method that I got pregnant with my son or the fact. I left it a week and just decided to stop putting pressure on myself had sex a little less drank more water and took prenatal vitimans then it happened. Its easier said than done when you want something so bad tho it's very stressful

I literally used an app called My calender and it tracks my period and tells me the most fertile days and it literally worked like magic everytime i tried to fall pregnant.

@Katie yes I did try and forget about it October to December (didn't track nothing, didn't have sex for the sake of it only when wanted it, didn't think about it on much) but it was always sort of there in back of mind! I thought maybe it was because I was busy so I just sort of thought it is what it is..

@Danielle I use 2 apps and the health app on phone to track my period and the ovulations dates are always the same, when I take ovulation strips sometimes it's a day or 2 off but we always have sex for a week straight throughout my ovulation, it's so shit😩

Me and my partner were trying for over 2 years before falling pregnant. Had miscarriage at 14 weeks pregnant. Then were pregnant again after 1 cycle. Only thing that really changed was diet and because we were grieving/ we were decorating our home etc for any type of distraction I guess we both weren’t stressing over ttc as much as we were previously (I know that’s such a cliche). But check up at the doctors is always a good idea for you both. To make sure everything’s all good physically :)