I want to know your thoughts

It's good to have opinions good or bad. I just hope people say im a nice person then im ok with that. Also some of the people that speak bad about you arent nice people themselves.

It depends if it's bad ciritism in your best interest not sugar costing truth kind of bad or bad just to be mean and hateful.

People are going to have opinions and that's fine. I don't live to make people like me. 🤷🏻‍♀️

People don’t like me that’s their fault. Their opinions of me are none of my business is my thought

I don't give a fu.... ✨ It's not worth worrying about negative opinions. Don't have to be everyone's cup of tea

I really just don't care if I'm not someone's cup of tea nowadays. In my teens and early 20s I was so conscious of what other people thought of me, was a massive people pleaser, and had terrible mental health. In my 30s I'm a completely different person and life is so much sweeter when you stop giving AF about what other people think!

Eh 🤷🏻‍♀️

I feel like not everyone is going to like me anyways so why should I care what the people who don't like me think of me

I walk into a mothers group and purposely zoom in on 1-2 that I can see I can befriend, I don’t go there to befriend the WHOLE group because that is literally impossible, I won’t vibe w all mums the same way all mums won’t vibe w me. And that’s okay. I’ve come to accept that I’m “too much” for a lot of people but “just right” for others who like my outgoing personality (or whatever) and that’s fine by me. Even the well known celebrities like Beyoncé or Taylor Swift gets death threats every day. They just ignore the death threats and focus on their fans. No matter how well liked or popular you are you will get haters and that’s just life

I like constructive feedback that’s delivered in a constructive way. I also enjoy positive feedback. However if I’m dealing with someone who only gives me negative feedback it’s giving hater and I have no room for someone constantly trying to tear me down

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I just think that other peoples beliefs about me is none of my business. If they want to waste their energy thinking poorly of you, let them!

It bothers me at times .. I think it always will bc I generally prefer to be liked...or well thought of.. BUT... I also at my age and time in life ...dont have the tolerance to generally give a shit.. I only have space for me and my own .. and I think its an important phase in personal growth to reach that space.

Having an opinion is great, all for encouraging independent thought. Reality is not everyone is going to like everyone and that's life. Let them think what they want and say what they want. It doesn't affect me personally

I don’t really give a f.

I don’t like everyone so everyone isn’t going to like me 🤷🏻‍♀️

I welcome constructive criticism and feedback in general. Having anxiety and being sleep deprived all the time makes me unsure if I'm coming across how I want to, so I feel better knowing what people see and think of me, my parenting, etc. And if I'm honest, I very much want to be liked. It's something I have struggled with my whole life, and I do my best to ignore it, but it's still there. Fortunately, now that I have kids I'm just too tired and too busy to pay attention or worry as much about it. I might worry in moments or after some interactions, but usually I don't think of it at all now. And like others have said, I myself don't vibe with everyone, so I don't expect everyone to always vibe with me.