Am I wrong?

I'm a stay at home mom with two kids, 2 year old girl and a 1 year old boy, my best friend and her fiance had to move in (trying to get their kid back cause of dcf or whatever) they help of course, well recently I had to drive 6 hours round trip to get 2 people because of a situation, and it was my best friend sister and brother so we took them in and my best freind sister has a boyfriend, now for 5 days straight since the sister and brother came thru argue over the little shit🙄 and of course the boyfriend is trying to get away from his girlfriend (sister) cause of all the arguing, last night they all finally leave, during those times they were here I was cleaning, running errands and making sure everyone is comfortable, my husband the whole time doesn't help when he was home he sat around while I cater to his every need(of course the sister and brother and the boyfriend tried to help like take out trash and of course some dishes) and now since they are gone I just want peace and quiet to my self, I'm burnt out now and I haven't had time for myself at all, it's like when I sit down and finally get comfortable I have to get up and do something, my husband thinks I hate him, today I wanted to take it slow and of course my husband keeps calling me "hey can you do this and this and this" I explained to him that I need to take a day off from everything and have a minute to myself, then of course he started to saying I hate him and he's making it about himself, I just hung up on him cause I didn't want to hear the bull shit Am I wrong to have time for myself?