Am so exhausted with life

I'm sorry you're struggling. Is there a reason he isn't sharing the load with his children? Have you spoken to him about it? He needs to step up.

@Joanne I’ve already tried to talk to him he just tells me to man up am a mum ect. X

Be real with him. Ask him how he would cope if you just left him with the kids. Then do it for a day. Men whine we should man up but can't actually do everything they ask of us themselves. Tell him your close to just up and leaving seen as though he seems to think it's easy should be no problem for him. Unfortunately they don't understand until they actually have to do it. If you're not already going to work then get a job so you can have a break and literally tell him I'm getting a job because it's a nice break, working is easy. My other half is awesome but I also tell him if I can do it on my own what exactly would be the point of you? Team work or go it alone.

@Danielle I’ve told him am so close to leaving and he just doesn’t care one bit, I Havant slept since Thursday and am absolutely shattered now, I’ve had the kids all day while he’s done what he wants all day. I’ve said about getting myself a job and he says I can’t cause who’s going to have the kids so I said I’ll work when your at home in a weekend and he says no weekends are for him to relax not to look after kids constantly 😩 xxx