What is something that you can say you can honestly need to work on?

I’ll go first: I think I push people away unintentionally. I’ve had 2 friends tell me they don’t know if they’re allowed to text me or not. & that made me self reflect on how I show up in relationships. I didn’t notice I was pushing ppl away

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I need to work on actively working on/ building friendships. I get soooo distracted with other things and the thought of agreeing to plans is so daunting. 🙃

I'm actively working on my voice. Meaning speaking up and using it. I tend to fade in the background sometimes and although comfortable, it does get to me sometimes. My biggest motivation is my son. He has autism; but he's so lively, loud, and unapologetic. I love that for him and want some of that for myself ✨️

communicating, setting boundaries & time management

Being nice

My procrastination 🥹

I don’t make an effort with people. I forget to check in with my oldest friends, I never invite people to do stuff, I don’t call or text. If you text me, I might take three days to reply because I’ll get anxiety about crafting the response. I assume people don’t want the burden of my company, so I don’t make suggestions to hang out.

Sometimes I take out my overstimulation rage/frustration on my husband. I’m getting better at identifying when I need to take a moment before it gets to that point, and he’s learning to deescalate the situation rather than reactively feed into it so that it turns into a full blown argument.

Patience and like others have shared, invest more into friendships.. Even family relationships. I should call my grandma more. Call my aunts to check in. I only have constant meaningful communication with my mom. I need to work in this for sure.

Setting a routine and sticking to it. Even though I'm a SAHM and my son is too young to have much of a schedule, I feel like structure is somewhat of a must. I'll do great for a little while, but as soon as I go off track a little I'm back to square one

Consistently Organizing at home particularly files I have files for my late father and aunt & uncle , myself hubs and kids there’s also a lot of emails that I need to delete over 50k

@Sharon aww man! That sounds so much like me, I hate phone calls, FaceTime and all of that. Im autistic though 😂

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