For those that say 1-2, I wanna know why! I’m preggers with #2 rn and wanna be prepared 🙈
I kind of hope 0-1 is the hardest because I’ve got 1 and struggling 😂😂😂 but don’t want to be put off having more
@Emily The transition from 1 to 2 requires you to now cater to two different stages for everything. Feeding, meal preparation, attention, quality time, moving them from point A to B by car or when in the store, sleep schedules, cultivating a healthy sibling relationship, etc. With one child, it's just you and that kid figuring it out, lol. Two requires you to be more intentional. It's challenging but beautiful once you get your systems in place.
1-2 for me 🤦♀️ as @Wendy said, catering to two different stages, I’m struggling to find any time for myself. My first was such an easy baby but my second is the definition of a Velcro baby😅. I also feel so guilty on my first that he doesn’t get my full attention like before and feel as though I’m constantly telling him “one minute”. I wouldn’t change it for the world though, can’t wait to see them grow up together 🥰
0 to 1. Partially because my first was a velcro baby and my second was pretty independent up till 6 months, but also because I was already doing the parenting thing.