Feeling bad and judged after oversharing

Anyone experienced this? Just feeling isolated trying to settle in a new place and shared with a group I'm in and just felt judged and now feel like I shouldn't have opened up about how I'm feeling now feel even worse!😩
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This is the story of my life! Major oversharer and the anxiety afterwards is awful! I'm so sorry you were made to feel judged😞 hopefully you settle in soon and find your place with new friends!🩷

Thanks for your message.At least not alone in feeling like this!the anxiety after is so awful and feel like i shouldnt talk to anyone now just dont want the disappointment! And it was a church group so thought I could be open..Hopefully ill make some decent friends,just need to give it time i guess..How do you deal with the feeling when it happens to you?

Oh bless you!! That's the last thing you would expect from a church group, you'd think they'd be really kind and understanding! 😞 Definitely don't let it stop you from reaching out to others though! Haha I'm probably the worst to ask, the feeling of cold dread washes over me whenever I remember a time I've overshared even if it was ages ago😂 I guess I just try to think it won't mean anywhere near as much to them as it did to me, they almost certainly won't remember it, and if they do all they'll think is "huh, she was a bit weird", so it's really not as bad as I think!!x

Yep! I’ve been blocked for it 🤷🏼‍♀️😭😂

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