I'm finding it really hard with my 13month old too 😕
Been SAHM for almost 5 years now, I’ve got 3 kids under 4, oldest in school, have the two at home but 2nd goes nursery for the free 15 hours she loves it and gives me a little bit of peace as my youngest (1) usually takes a nap in afternoon. Plan to also put youngest in nursery once turn 2 next year for the free hours. I’m also thinking to start my own cupcakes business at home to be self employed for extra pennies because it’s a real struggle in this cost of living and feel bad I can’t take them out often for activities If you have a hobby maybe try turn that into a business, go out for walks or involve her in whatever you’re doing as everyday skills. It does get easier as they grow
I'm in the same boat but also have my son in school and my husband gets back at different times every day so I'm the only childcare for both kids. Trying to work hours around them is near impossible xx