Toileting Regression - Any Advice?

My August 21 girly has been potty trained now for well over a year. We welcomed our second girly at the very end of December 24. Over the past 2 months we’ve noticed a real regression in terms of our eldest having accidents. Everywhere I read suggests it’s due to our new addition but I’m not entirely convinced. I’ve noticed a real correlation between her being too distracted with friends at nursery and the telly at home verses when the accidents happen. She’s aware she’s having accidents and word for word will say ‘sorry mummy, it’s just an accident not on purpose’ in a really blasé way. Whilst I appreciate it is an accident and not on purpose, I’m starting to get a bit frustrated with it to be honest. Any ideas on what I can do to move her past the accidents??
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We had this a few months ago with our little boy. Was about 3/4 months after his sister was born and coincided with lots of tantrums and terrible sleep. I reckon it’s all developmental - we had a rough few weeks before it passed. I’m very impatient so would get really frustrated but we found that ignoring accidents and big praise for using the toilet helped. Back to basics.

Hi - I know how frustrating this can be. We had the exact same thing with our august 21 girly too! After her baby brother was born she started having accidents when he was about 3/4 months old. It was always in nursery and the teachers would say oh she didn’t make it as she was busy playing. We tried everything but nothing worked. Till my husband tried this trick “ I want to take you to so and so park/shop after I pick you but we can’t go if you peed as you’d be abit smelly and uncomfortable so we would have to come home”. From that day she stopped having any as she was excited to go with her dad. We kept up with that for 1 week. Then she got used to not peeing again. Been 2 months we haven’t had any accidents. Good luck. I know it sounds annoying but it’s not going to last forever. X

Thanks both, it’s good to know I’m not on my own with it! Will try and be more consistent with the big praise when she uses the toilet, just very difficult to ignore the blasé attitude from her when she knows what she’s done 😅 we’ve said to her that we can go to peppa pig world when she stops having accidents, perhaps I need to go back to basics with a sticker chart or similar for accident free days so that she has a visual!

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