i feel so alone

finally went no contact and blocked my bd on everything. just a few minutes ago he was screaming at me otp because i want to take our baby to church tomorrow, it was the last straw for me. he lives miles away and barely sees his son. my baby cries everytime he’s with him. my bd constantly lies and insults me so i cut him off. most of my friends are at uni, my family lives in a different town. and i’m 19 and just moved out with my baby. my bd was my best friend before i got pregnant, i feel like i have no one, im so depressed :(

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Just keep all the verbal and emotional abusive on record in case he wants to take you to court at any point. I’m sorry you’re going through this love but hey listen you left young. That’s better than staying in a toxic environment ruining your mental health further and potentially your child’s too. So at least be happy about that love. Find the positive in the storm to help you be grateful and look forward to your future. This is a stepping stone and if you focus on you and your child god with bless you tenfold. Just stay focus, mature and work to secure a good future for you and your child. 💜

I know how u feel babe if u ever wanna talk feel free to send me a message I’m 21 with my first little boy of 7 months xx

Brave. Give yourself a pat.

Not diagnosing your bd but sharing a community to support us moms who go through any type of abuse from our children's father. We will be sharing helpful & wellness resources, support group, community to help navigate and find healing through God's agape love and His Word.🙏🏾❤️ I think it's a beautiful thing that you're taking your baby to church! You have already done two of the most important steps to your recovery, seeking God and going no contact. I am a survivor of both DV and narcissisism/ toxic relationship so my heart goes out to you. Know that you are not alone. It will be very challenging and he will most likely come back apologizing and try to lure you back; but you deserve so much better! Be strong love. Easier said than done I know. But I pray you find a community to help you through this time. 🫶🏾🙏🏾✨ Check out the link below. https://www.peanut-app.io/share/pX3uoUbAyRb

Period girl, screw him. If he doesn’t wanna talk to you nice he doesn’t need to talk to you at all. I would communicate through a mutual you feel comfortable with perhaps his mother or something until he grows tf up or give him your email cause its less invasive cause you do still have a child together at the end of the day. You do not need that stress especially when you have a little one to worry about. If he has different values when it comes to religion he can voice that without screaming-thats insane behaviour.

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