What would you do?
So I’ve had no contact with my mum for a month now due to various reasons. Her birthday is on Saturday and I don’t know whether to get her a few gifts from the kids or to just leave it? My daughter has already chosen something for her and made her a card but I don’t know how I’m going to give it to her or if I should do more from the children?
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@maria yeah I was thinking to just post a parcel to her so she gets what we’ve already brought and just leave it at that. If I didn’t have the kids, I wouldn’t bother myself but my daughter is of an age where she knows it’s her birthday soon and has already chosen a gift
I would send for the kids but leave it at that . Sometimes that opens the door for communication though so I’d be weary if you’re trying to stay no contact .
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If your relationship with your mom isnt the best its up to you what you want to give her (if anything at all). The children however, would be upset if you won't give their gifts to her. You could just post them to her on their behalf. That's all.